Temporary Friendship: Does it really exist?

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What is friendship? It’s the feeling of complete comfort and emotional safety with one particular person. It’s when you don’t have to speak a single word and still end up having a beautiful conversation and feeling satisfied.

So then what is temporary friendship? Well, a friend of mine seems to believe that it’s not possible for a boy and girl to be friends for ever unless they are a family. Now she didn’t mean these two would fall in love, but on the contrary, others would come into their lives and then the friendship would lose the priority and finally just disappear. For example, when the guy gets married, then there is a good change that the wife wouldn’t be so happy to have the guy hanging around with the girl all the time. But that wouldn’t be the case if the wife would also become her friend (but doesn’t happen often). So she seems to think that all relations are just temporary. No relation is permanent.

Well, I have been enough examples to counter both. But the fact remains that there exists a health amount of both, the ones who stick with their friends no matter what happens and those who would totally lose all contacts with their friends as soon as they find someone. In fact, I have had the experience of having both types of friends. So, I definitely know what it means and how it feels. But if the second type of person does exist, then it’s definitely their loss since they would have lot a very good and loyal friend. But, the fact remains everything happen with a reason.

But losing trust in friendship altogether, now that would be some very extreme reaction. The best thing would be to enjoy the time that you have with your friends. In fact, create as many good memories with them, as much as possible. Never lose faith in friends, even when there are those u walk away because, they always have a reason, no matter how small and lousy. And at one point of time, they would always come back.

1 comments:

  1. priya

    i think that after a point in life, friends do continue to exist but it becomes namesake.. ur family is wat ur life revolves around nd friends lose ground.. which is so sad and bitter.

    Tue Feb 23, 02:06:00 AM GMT+5:30

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